Published on August 29, 2023 · 8 min read
Last modified: September 23, 2025
Whatever the circumstances, divorce can be a challenging and emotionally charged process for couples. While every divorce is unique, there are standard steps that most couples go through.
This article aims to help you understand the typical steps of a contested divorce as a Marble client, so you can better navigate this life-changing event, and understand how Marble can support you at each stage.
It’s important to keep in mind that because Marble works on a limited scope basis, your services may differ slightly (and timelines may vary state-by-state). Your attorney will walk you through each step your case requires, and you’ll pay a clear, fixed price for every service.
This step is about reviewing your information, drafting and filing legal documents, and then waiting for the court to process that paperwork.
Review your documents carefully, ensuring they’re accurate and contain all of the necessary information to be filed successfully
Call you to discuss your circumstances and review your documentation
Draft the legal paperwork and submit it to the court
Be available for the call with your attorney
Complete the intake form we send you
Upload the requested documents in the “Documents” section of your Marble Home
Review and sign the court documents your lawyer sends you
It helps to speed things up if you provide your team with accurate information in a timely manner. This step can be influenced by several factors, like court processing time (which is outside of Marble’s control), so we recommend being patient as your case starts up.
This process can take from approximately three weeks to two months. As with every service we discuss in this article, timelines may vary state-by-state.
We get to work on serving your spouse with official paperwork if they reside in the US and we know where to find them.
Manage the entire service process
Update you when (and if) papers are served successfully
If we can’t serve your spouse after several attempts, we’ll contact you to discuss other options like skip trace, publication, etc. Note that these are additional services
Provide us with your spouse’s address and/or specific details about how we can find them
Be patient as we attempt to serve your spouse
We generally attempt to serve your spouse at a single address only (usually the address you provide us with). Should you have new information, we may need to start fresh. This is an additional service.
This can typically take from three days to three months end-to-end.
We’ll know the next steps based on how the opposing party responds (or doesn’t). Patience is key at this stage.
Let you know the opposing party’s deadline for a response
Keep an eye out for any filings related to your case
Let you know if the response will arrive via postal mail or email
Help you decide how to deal with any response and discuss your case strategy
Keep an eye out for the response, as you’ll sometimes be the first to receive it. The response can come by mail or by email if you’ve registered for your state’s eFile portal
Inform us when you’ve been served or haven’t received a response by the deadline
Patience is very important at this stage. Remember that you’ll be first to know when there’s a response, so we won’t have updates until the court contacts YOU. Based on how the opposing party responds, your attorney will contact you to recommend which additional services are needed to keep your case moving forward.
This can take approximately three to four weeks.
This is when you’ll provide us with your financial documents within a set deadline based on a list we give you.
Explain what you need to prepare and send links to helpful articles on getting those documents
Carefully inspect and review each financial document you provide to ensure it will meet the strict requirements of the court
Provide your attorney with the required documents (it’s best to do so well before the deadline!)
Be accurate and transparent on all of your documents
The judge requires these documents to move your case forward. Before securely uploading them to your Marble home, ensure nothing is left out.
Always upload before the deadline. If you miss your deadline, the judge may dismiss your case (we’ll remind you of your upcoming deadlines and try to help you as much as possible).
This can take from approximately two weeks to two months.
Temporary orders are designed to address immediate concerns while you wait for a final court order. They can address anything from spousal support to property division to child custody and beyond.
Attend a hearing with you – or on your behalf – where the judge will enter a temporary order
Make a list of your expenses, custody needs or items you want to own (it’s a good idea to be reasonable here and not demand anything extravagant)
This is usually an additional service and is only added if you need it. The outcome decided on by the judge is final, until your case is done and there’s a final judgment. We’ll do our best to advocate for you, but we advise you to keep your expectations reasonable. You may not get everything you feel you’re entitled to.
This step may take approximately two to four months.
Mediation is a process during which you and your spouse try to settle issues out of court with the help of a mediator. The mediator will prepare a settlement agreement after the session based on what you both agree to.
Note: Some states require a couple to go through mediation even if they plan to go to trial.
Represent your interests during negotiations to reach an agreement
Consider what you reasonably need to reach an agreement
Be willing to negotiate, even if you don’t get everything you want
Focus on the end goal – let go of any issues that are unimportant to you
Mediation and settlement are usually faster, less expensive, and less stressful than going to trial. However, if you and your spouse can’t agree, you must go to trial. One of the downsides of going to trial is that the judge decides what you and your spouse take from the divorce – you won’t be able to negotiate afterward.
This step can take approximately two to six months.
Discovery or “information gathering” is when you and the opposing party request and share information, including about your finances. This helps both of you see the full financial picture to reach a fair resolution. Discovery is usually required for cases that go to trial but can be beneficial even if you decide to settle out of court.
Facilitate requesting information from your spouse
Review the information you provide for accuracy
Answer any questions you may have
Provide any of the requested information before the deadline
It’s important that you’re honest and forthcoming with the information you provide. If the court discovers any hidden information, this could impact the timeline of your case significantly.
The timeline for discovery varies significantly based on your court.
A trial is a formal process in which a judge examines the evidence in a case, may talk to witnesses, and then makes a judgment.
Try to convey to the court why you should get what you’re asking for
Call you to prepare you for trial
Guide you through the trial
Provide evidence, names of witnesses and written statements needed at trial
Be prepared to present your case to the judge, which may be in person or through online video services like Zoom
A judge decides on the outcome of a trial, and their decision is final. We’ll try to help you get everything you want, but we cannot guarantee your case outcome. If your hearing is longer than one day, this may be an additional service and could affect how long it takes to close your case.
A trial may take from approximately six to eight months, but it varies depending on the court.
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